09 – the bed room
Children teach us we must love. It took having my little one to give me a very accurate reference point of what “true love” feels like versus “true need.” “True love” is liberating and non-binding, which was the exact opposite of what I had practiced or been taught prior to her birth.
For her beloved life, I will always be eternally grateful to my daughter’s father and my soul mate, Steve. Steve and I have shared a journey of healing and recovery in her arms. We did not share the same journey before her birth in one another’s arms. As wounded children, we knew exactly how to love her but not always how to love one another. Each day, Grace teaches us how to love each other as only she can can. A child’s love is evergreen.
What was in your BEDROOM before you had your baby? What did the room look like? Was it for eating? Working? Having sex? TV?
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What does the BEDROOM look like today?
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What things would you like to take out of it? What would you like to bring back?
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How is your relationship with your husband or partner growing and changing?
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What is your child teaching you and your husband or partner about real love?
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Do you remember that thing called sleep? Are you getting any?
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Do you take naps with your child?
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Is your little boy or girl welcome in your room? Were you welcome in your parents’ room as a little girl?
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